Returning player need help with a first build.

[Akhanus]

Hello DDO community

I havent played in many years so a lot is different. theres epic destinies and lives and heroic stuff..

I was hoping the more experienced people could help me design a starter build for a new first life character.

the goal is as follows:

able to handle all the secret doors and locks (and traps or have good saves/immunities so i dont need to)
no need to use a heap of consumables all the time, just self buffs.
solo character for content up to hard, maybe some elite stuff, but i dont care much about raids and such
tanky with some form of self healing
not need super specific items


so after researching a bit I found a pale master wizard build with 2 points in rogue and 3 in paladin and that seems pretty cool.
but im not sure how they heal, usually it used to be a warforged with repair.
I can buy 32 pt build and get a +6 supreme tome at level 20 from the store.


Id really appreciate it if you guys could list a level order with feats and skills and spell choices.
Id also like to have those spells like "reveal door" and stuff, which i dont usually see listed in the spell lists on builds.
this is mainly a strongish solo character who can experience as much of the game as possible by himself but doesnt need to be super optimised around specific gear and raids or high end stuff.

thank you in advance

[EllisDee37]

Sounds like a Pale Trapper.