there is something to be said for mixing DDO friends with your out of game life is bad becuse you cant put up a facade anymore ..... It is true this is all I have and my wife does hate me. However I am in the middle of an unjust situation and until I can figure out another way to deal with it it seems that me cancelling my subs is the best way to go. I do not want to leave I actually enjoy playing the game. Now that I have said my piece I really do want all of you to know I enjoyed every minute of everything we did together and thanks for the private tells about the pic I posted for you Milamberr ..... you will always be in my heart and panties this new tattoo of you will help me remember!!!!!