That is the issue with these kinds of threads. The correct solution is to roll back to either the pre-MOTU level 20 game or the game immediately after MOTU and then redo everything with a respect for the game as it was. Something from every epic raid should still be relevant. Don't introduce any heroic items with better than +6 to an ability. Don't nerf the **** out of clickies.
The problem is that that's impossible. So just roll with the game as it is until you finally don't enjoy it enough to log on.