Since much what you list are epic abilities that any melee might end up using (which is odd to include in a discussion of class balance among melees) and gear swapouts (which obviously only apply if you have been playing long enough to have **** near perfect gear) . . . I am not convinced that your experience jives even slightly with that of the average player. It certainly doesn't jive with mine, though I will allow that most of my experience in epics on a melee is Paladins and Rogue assassins.
In any case, have a nice rest of your weekend. I'm done here.