Hopefully this is the right place for this. Technically a returning player from like ten years ago but played so little I should be treated as completely new. I bought both warforged and artificer back then cause that's what I'm into, and I made a new warforged artificer last night. My intent is to play a warforged artificer, to use the iron defender as extensively as possible, and to play solo and be as self-sufficient as possible. HOWEVER. Bladeforged is also very appealing. After poking around online a little I have discovered the existence of the reincarnation mechanic, and also that you can be a bladeforged but also a different class, which confused me at first until I realized that being bladeforged doesn't prevent you from multiclassing.
I am a casual player, I am not seeking a "best" build and have no intent of gearing up to grind endgame content, assuming that's a thing in this game like most MMOs. That said, would it be unplayably detrimental to roll a bladeforged artificer? Should I give up the special snowflake syndrome and stick to the base warforged? In what ways would it be detrimental? One of my concerns is skill proficiencies, I know as an artificer I put a lot of points into spot, search, lockpicking, disable traps, that kind of thing. Would it be safe to assume the bladeforged forced paladin level would not be as good at these things?
Basically just dump everything on me you can think of, in the simplest terms possible, the synergies and incompatibilities between bladeforged and artificer, in comparison with a warforged artificer. If the difference would barely be noticeable to a casual player I'll go with bladeforged, if there's a large gap I'll stick to warforged.