I mean the soul splitter set is really, really good. But anyway, here's what I'd do if I didn't have feywild and didn't wanna use soul splitter. This is a quick and dirty put together thing but should net you a good amount of damage and control. The feywild dreamer set is good for a lot of reasons but yeah, anyway.
Main hand: U49 Resonance Scepter
Offhand: U49 Impulse Scepter
Eyes: Legendary Dusk Lenses (Esoteric)
Helm: Legendary Arcsteel Brim
Neck: Sigil of Regalport (This drops from any sharn quest, I've seen several and they don't seem that rare)
Body: Legendary Order's Garb (Esoteric)
Wrists: Legendary Aetherband (Esoteric)
Cloak: I mean legendary gossamer weave real good but if you CBA to do Soul Splitter, Legendary Cloak of the City
Belt: Legendary Bronze Dragonscale Belt
Boots: Legendary Sunken Slippers (Qual CHA 5)
Ring: Legendary Shattered Onyx (Ins CHA 10)
Ring: Slavers - False Life | Radiance Lore | Perform | Quality CON
Trinket: Slavers - Resistance | Devotion | Spellcraft | Quality PRR
Idk, something like that. If you switch out one of the trinkets to replace to spell focus (-1 DCs bleh) for the slavers helmet and then add slavers endurance you can get some additional set bonuses to defenses.
This is a rough and dirty gear set that I did off the top of my head so it can probably be improved - I'd recommend taking some time with gear tetris.
The new scepters are a lot better than alternatives for spell power and the extra evo on the impulse scepter is super nice. There's not great sources of spell DCs outside of soul splitter/feywild so that's the bit you're gonna have to look at.