Your instakills and trips are flavor. They have no bearing on "how much damage can i do to the red-named target in front of me." Also known as; DPS!
Here is an example of my DPS, so you understand I am not just making things up here.
https://streamable.com/wkqwdh
Lets break it down here. For maximum dps you need a few things.
-Enhancement, Insightful, Quality, Profane, Artifact, Exceptional of your damage stat.
-Enhancement, Insightful, Quality, Profane deadly (profane often being relegated to Llolth cookies)
-Enhancement, Insightful, Quality deception, Artifact Sneak Dice
-Enhancement, Insightful, Quality seeker
-Enhancement, Insightful, Quality accuracy
-Enhancement, Insightful, Artifact Armor Piercing
-Enhancement, Insightful, Quality, Artifact Doublestrike (Quality being excluded if you can cap doublestrike without it of course.)
-Artifact Melee power (hello potf!)
Often we find insightful deadly and accuracy through a trance ability; that becomes a different discussion of maximizing your secondary stat for Divine Might, KTA, Deadly Instincts, etc. But thats neither here nor there.
Stunning, trip, con, sheltering; none of these effects affect your
raw damage; therefore, they have no bearing on DPS.
I won't go into sentient slotting, because that doesn't necessarily fit into this conversation.
So, you design your perfect gear set that includes all of the above; where else can you get more damage? Melee power. Where are the only sources of natural melee power (read:non-mythic/reaper) on gear in the game? Crown of Butterflies, Ring of Prowess, and Titania's glory.
These items are mandatory; they are not replaceable by any other item. Lots of items have all the other stats i listed above! No other item has the melee power provided by Crown of Butterflies. Therefore if you are serious about maximizing
how hard can I smack this boss standing in front of me your gearset must include these items.