It can be frustrating for sure, you should try to join a guild that has people who are willing to show you the ropes. Also, it's a good idea to do a little research before going into areas you are not familiar with such as slayer zones with quests. The ddo wiki is a good place to do the research. They have maps and info about the quests. I used to keep a tablet handy so that I could look things up while I played. Worst case scenario, explore those areas on your own with a hireling so that you can get familiar with the terrain.DDo is going on what 14 years now, people who have been playing for years take it for granted that everyone else has as well. Maybe let people know you are new to the game when you hit their lfm and that you need some help getting to the quest. Any way's, welcome to the game and I hope you have an enjoyable time here.