Background: Came back to DDO 3 weeks ago after a 2+ year hiatus.
I just hit 23 with my Paladin by running adventures with a good group.
They carried me entirely. I didn't feel like I contributed at all. No one even needed heals as everything was kited (crossbows).
My damage was pitiful in comparison. The group was supportive, but I felt useless.
Are Paladins just bad right now? What happened to saving throws and such? How can others take less damage than me? I have over 50 Charisma, meaning I have awesome saving throws. Also is sword and board Paladin no longer viable? I recall a while back, Paladins were the best thanks you could get. Now I get killed in a few hits.
Anyone have build advice for a Drow Paladin?
I feel bad having a mob melt before I can even hit it. Not that it matters, since I take half my HP on damage when it hits me... What happened in the last 2-3 years? What am I missing?
Simply put, this is a lot less fun than I remember. I was actually told that tanks and healers weren't really needed anymore until endgame raids. Is that true? Devastating if correct, since I have a 21 Fighter, 23 Cleric, and 19 FS...