Since when has this "always been a problem"? I can get +1 to-hit, damage, and spell power; Int to-hit and damage; +1 to a stat; and max KtA for 13 EP in a universal tree.
It's okay for players to get cool stuff. In fact, if we couldn't, it probably wouldn't be worth playing the game. Is there some kind of weird self-hatred among DDO players?