I'm a big fan of Bard/Fighter/Rogue. My main is a 12 Bard/6 Fighter/2 Rogue build, and he is a beast in Reaper. Evasion, Dodge, Traps, PRR... UMD. What's not to like? I hear you can go 12 Fighter/6 Bard/2 Rogue (Fighter 12 gives Power Surge among other things) as well for a crunchier build, but I enjoy having the cures, buffs, and utility spells that bards offer.
Currently, I run with 32% dodge (From Swashbuckler and Kensai; you can get it a bit higher by tweaking enhancements or going gnome), Blur, and Displacement. Throw in the HP, PRR, and MRR of Stalwart, and you should be doing just fine. I play very aggressively, and rarely die. Of course, past lives help, but this is simply a great combination.
On top of all that, you can fascinate in a pinch for excellent CC (provided your party will cooperate).
Oh, go with handaxes, and don't do Throw Your Weight Around unless you have all of your Racial TR points.
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