I used to play DDO and recently decided to pick it up again to play with a friend. We've decided to roll on Argonnessen. For the last 4 hours I have been trying to roll a character. First off, just loading the character creation screen takes a long time. I can get through selecting classes, races, and that I want to customize my build, and as soon as I hit the 'next' button after races the game stops responding. The music plays for a bit longer until it, too, fades away. Eventually the build creation screen loads and I can quickly arrange my stats and feats to my liking, at which point it again freezes when it's time to customize my character's appearance. If I've made it this far without disconnecting, i can usually get the appearance sorted out and type in a name before hitting enter. That's when I get a lovely popup that says "Please wait". Somewhere between 1 to 4 minutes later, the game crashes and I get another popup telling me that the game lost connection to the server.
This is the same computer I used to play the game for several years, up until 2013 or so. I have updated all my device drivers. I have done every windows update. I have restarted my computer several times. I have rebooted my router. The game automatically does that pre-caching thing. I turned all the graphics to potato settings, the only way to turn them lower would be to shut the game off. Does anyone have any advice?