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    Look. I thought you were picking on her for wanting an all girls guild. If I misjudged Im sorry. Truly. I ask your forgiveness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaidasan View Post
    Hello, Anunnakie.

    I have a question for you.

    I am a transgender woman. Would I be welcomed in your guild?

    Looking forward to your response.
    Ok. Let me apologize personally to you. I thought wrongly that your inquiries were not sincere. I was wrong. I would gladly take you into my own guild with no hestation. Innerself reflective Mastery. You would be welcome with open arms. Once again I WAS WRONG. WRONG WRONG WRONG. Im sorry for misjudging you. I thought it was a gotcha question but now I no longer believe that and think you were sincere. You have a place among us if you wish. Anytime.

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    I'm halfway tempted to start a men-only guild to see exactly how much hate mail I get, and how quickly.
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    I would consider rolling a character on Argo to play with other wimmin.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Merlin-ator View Post
    I'm halfway tempted to start a men-only guild to see exactly how much hate mail I get, and how quickly.
    there's already about 15,000 of them -by default.
    so cant c u getting too much hate from Good'Ol Boys Club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Anunakie View Post
    *I will be asking to prove that you are a woman with either voice or contacting me via fb.
    Use voice, don't rely on facebook. People can fake facebook. Voice is harder to fake.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Whispurr View Post
    Use voice, don't rely on facebook. People can fake facebook. Voice is harder to fake.
    Voice is not that hard to fake. http://www.screamingbee.com/

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alavatar View Post
    Voice is not that hard to fake. http://www.screamingbee.com/
    It's not that hard to fake, but still harder than facebook. We had a guildmate in lotro who used a voice changer and one time it either didn't work or he forgot to turn it on and got caught. With facebook, there's really no way of anyone ever finding out. Also, less people will go to such extremes to get in.
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    interesting, but may I ask. What are your intentions and purpose of making women only guild

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaidasan View Post
    Hello, Anunnakie.

    I have a question for you.

    I am a transgender woman. Would I be welcomed in your guild?

    Looking forward to your response.
    If this was sincere why the public post and not a PM?
    Did you get the response you were looking for?
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    Her question is a legit question. Not sure what's anyone's problem with that question honestly. If she asked it on here and not on a PM, it means she is not afraid of who she is (and she shouldn't be) so give it a rest already.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wizza View Post
    Her question is a legit question. Not sure what's anyone's problem with that question honestly. If she asked it on here and not on a PM, it means she is not afraid of who she is (and she shouldn't be) so give it a rest already.
    luvz ya Wiz, & that's ONE way of seeing such a statement....

    OR

    Question could b meant ta provoke controversial replies.

    Either way, Threads such as these r generally created for recruitment, & standard replies r in form of PM's -if interested in joining.

    anything else is conversational fodder & haz no purpose here.
    -even mine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawai View Post
    anything else is conversational fodder & haz no purpose here.
    I disagree. That was a question that - regardless of motive - is of interest to any Transgendered individual who might have seen this post and been interested in the guild, but might be too afraid to ask or simply made an assumption that they were not welcome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chi_Ryu View Post
    I disagree. That was a question that - regardless of motive - is of interest to any Transgendered individual who might have seen this post and been interested in the guild, but might be too afraid to ask or simply made an assumption that they were not welcome.
    lets think about that.
    "too afraid to ask"

    if someone were "too afraid to ask', they would also send a PM.

    -motion denied. ruling for defendant.
    >tap tap<

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawai View Post
    lets think about that.
    "too afraid to ask"
    Now try thinking about that a bit longer. Now try understanding what the words "too afraid to ask" actually means. Now consider that sending a PM is, in fact, "asking."

    Objection overruled.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chi_Ryu View Post
    Now try thinking about that a bit longer. Now try understanding what the words "too afraid to ask" actually means. Now consider that sending a PM is, in fact, "asking."

    Objection overruled.
    fail.

    if (can't believe i hav2 explain ruling to inferior legal council) someone were "too afraid to ask" then they would, in fact, send a PM... rather than exploit & realize said fears by posting on a Public Forum.

    >tap tap<

    appeal denied.
    one more outburst & this court will hold u in contempt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawai View Post
    if (can't believe i hav2 explain ruling to inferior legal council) someone were "too afraid to ask" then they would, in fact, send a PM... rather than exploit & realize said fears by posting on a Public Forum.
    Too afraid to ask means too afraid to ask - this means anyone, PM or otherwise.

    Quote Originally Posted by Me
    That was a question that - regardless of motive - is of interest to any Transgendered individual
    Read it again - I am not referring to the person who asked the question, but anyone else reading the answer to the question that person raised. Which is why it was a good question to ask publically.

    Perhaps you'd better let Maya channel Mia Fey to come to your rescue? It looks to me like the old Judge is going to rule against you. Judge! Pass your verdict now!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Naash View Post
    If this was sincere why the public post and not a PM?
    Did you get the response you were looking for?
    As Kaida's guildie on Sarlona, let me say that she has not gotten the response she hoped for as she has received no response of yes or no to her question; instead she's having her right to ask the question debated here.

    Why public? Well, anyone ever think of maybe she currently plays almost exclusively on another server and was deciding if to roll up a character to go with that guild on Argo?? (ie you cannot PM without one on the same server) And it IS a sincere and legitimate question for her situation.

    Now, as to the public "issue" some feel that it has become; do you folks really and truly believe that it is becoming a thorny issue due to her question and not because of those without an interest in the answer choosing to turn her question into the latest fodder for bickering? I personally think that hostility and attempts to turn her words into swords is why she's now avoiding this thread.
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    Are you a deadhead or a hippie looking for a guild on Sarlona? "Sunshine Daydream" might be the fit for you! Send a message in-game to Akateva or Kaibeth for information or an invite. The fine print: roleplaying encouraged but not required in guild chat; LGBT-friendly; flower-sniffing playstyle (zerging discouraged outside favor runs).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tevasama View Post
    As Kaida's guildie on Sarlona, let me say that she has not gotten the response she hoped for as she has received no response of yes or no to her question; instead she's having her right to ask the question debated here.

    Why public? Well, anyone ever think of maybe she currently plays almost exclusively on another server and was deciding if to roll up a character to go with that guild on Argo?? (ie you cannot PM without one on the same server) And it IS a sincere and legitimate question for her situation.

    Now, as to the public "issue" some feel that it has become; do you folks really and truly believe that it is becoming a thorny issue due to her question and not because of those without an interest in the answer choosing to turn her question into the latest fodder for bickering? I personally think that hostility and attempts to turn her words into swords is why she's now avoiding this thread.
    sorry to hear this
    yes, the bickering was very well out of place.

    as for PMs... The Forum, itself, has a message, called Private. Thus, PM.
    -right click name of Forumite to send a Personal Message.

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    Please, folks. Let's focus on the purpose of a guild recruitment thread. Also, moving to the proper section of the Argo forums.
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