See, but this is part of the problem. I and my friends just ran 2 of the Necro 1 quests last night on our TR train. 1 death from a forgotten trap and lag. HE of course and we also ran it the way we would have back in the day.
That's the problem with random, your group and our group supposedly ran these quests on the same difficulties, and while yours was a horror, ours was a cakewalk.
If people can't see why this is a punishing change to the game rather than a challenging one, well, I don't know what more to say....