
Originally Posted by
Chilldude
DDO was an amazing game back in the day, and the social aspect made it even better. Today DDO is a pretty bad game, but the social aspect makes it playable.
First thing you have to realize is that the remaining players are here for one reason and one reason alone, to grind XP as fast as they can. It's the entire point of the game now. It's what the developers have designed the game around for the past 5 years. Mountains and mountains of XP to climb. When you get to the top of one peak, you see an even taller peak way off in the distance. The game is 100% about grinding and nothing else. Absolute grind, grind, grind, grind, grind. Run as fast as you can, invisible if possible, to whatever must be done to make the XP rain down.
One you've accepted this it removes all the pitfalls of trying to make an RPG character that fits into a balanced group and other such nonsense as that. The game is 100% about speed of grind, therefore being able to kill things quickly is the only factor you should build your toons around. Don't think of this as D&D, think of it as multiplayer Pac Man where you have 6 Pac Men running around the maze gobbling up dots. Sometimes you can split up and gobble up dots down different paths simultaneously, other times there are lots of dots in one path and all the Pac Men just run together in a blob gobbling down whatever is in front of them. You want to make a Pac Man, not a Drow Elf Hunter who specializes in recon and the ranged annihilation of primary targets during battle.
The key to building a Pac Man is exploiting the power gained by synergizing various seemingly unrelated abilities. The problem for a new player is you have no idea what these eploitatively over powered synergies are. In fact, much of what seems like it would make good sense when building a character is actually insurmountably gimped. What a new player needs to do is consult the build forums to find blue prints for making a Pac Man. I'm not sure you fully understand what I just said, you absolutely must without question go pick out a Pac Man from the build store. I know you are sitting there thinking you are going to be able to build your own Pac Man, you're not. It took years of grinding by legions of Pac Men to discover the exploitatively over powered synergies in in the build store, you're not going to come up with it on your own with your first build. So go now, pick out a Pac Man, then come back and finish reading this post.
Once you've picked out your Pac Man, you need only stock up on items that make your Pac Man a self sufficient one many army. Pac Men love to hunt in Pacs, but a Pac Man absolutely must be prepared at all times to hunt alone. You might not know everything you need right out of the gate, but it's easy enough to figure out as you go along. Any time you die, you forgot something that would have provided 100% protection from that death. But, how do you protect yourself from a 400 Polar Ray at level 15 you ask? First of all, a Pac Man has over 400 HP at level 15, but once that Ice Flenser in Gianthold kills you with his Polar Ray you will then know that next time you need to bring 100% protection in the form of a Pale Lavender Ioune stone, Jeweled Cloak, or for low budget first lifers a Mantle of the World Shaper. Every single time you die it is a learning experience because each and every death is 100% preventable for Pac Men. You just need to analyze what killed you and next time bring the appropriate protection with you.
Now that you've got a Pac Man and he's outfitted for battle, you're ready to join the Pac! Jump in the first EBB IP LFM you see. If you don't see one, make one! Just take your level and subtract 2, then start any quest of that level on elite and put EBB IP in the LFM. Now jump in that quest and start running. If you've chosen a powerful Pac Man build, you'll be able to run non stop to the XP pinata, new players call that the end boss. Don't worry though, even if your not quite uber yet, it won't be long and more Pac Men will arrive to join the faceroll. Within 20-30 minutes you'll have a full Pac, running through quests just as fast as they run from quest to quest.
You can now enjoy all the social aspects of DDO! Right before each XP pinata the party leader will say what quest is next. Occaisionally someone will say, brb followed by door, bio, dog, wife, or drink. My favorite conversation though is definitely when one person leaves the Pac and a new person joins they say, "hi omw". Makes you feel warm inside because you know 1/5 of that hi is just for you! I'm getting a little weepy just thinking about it.
In all seriousness though, I am completely dead serious about every single thing I said in this post. It is absolutely exactly what DDO has become. However, sometimes you run with the same people enough while leveling that they become acquaintances. In those cases, the "hi omw" is often followed up by, "how's it going?" or "only 200K to cap".