Hey guys, after a 4 year break I'm back and I need some help. Clearly things have changed, and a probably made some bad choices along the way, but my monk (12 monk, 2 fighter, Path of balance) needs some help. Think you can save it?

Once upon a time I followed a build to get where I am now. Ill lay out what I have and Id really appreciate anyone who could help me with either the future path or changing what I have. I could just reroll, but this character is the highest I've ever gotten, which goes to show that re-rolling is unsavory.
(I can't get the screenshots to post here so I'll just type it)

STR:24 HP:226
Dex:26 Armor class: 35
Con:17 Fort:23
Int:8 Reflx:22
WIS:21 Will:17
Cha:8 BAB 11/14


Feats:
This is where I think I have a problem, I never got stunning fist, strike, etc and have primarily used flame and wind stance. feats to note are:

deflect arrows
evasion
Improved crit bludg
Power Crit
Self sufficient

I list these because they seem the most controversial, as well as the ones i could possible trade to fred if it came to that. So, what do you think? Should I go on? Is there a point? What do I need to do to save him?

Thanks!