I was overjoyed to read about the reversal of decision in the notes with regard to:

The game launcher is now able to perform the initial download of the DDO .dat files without the use of Akamai NetSession technology. ....users may click "Decline" on the Akamai EULA. There is also an option to disable installation and usage of NetSession technology in the settings panel.
This is a fresh install, as I removed lama two years ago...anyways, I have no 'decline' button. Only Quit/Accept on the initial install from the 124mb file.