Hm, I changed a lvl 10 bard around that I had on Lam land (to test swash) and also found that it was hard to choose what to pick where and when. Still went for a decent amount of swash in the first turn (because she is more done towards melee than casting currently), so it was full of tough choices to make with the 30 or so AP available after that.
But in contrast to you, I think its good if we are forced to choose between things we actually want.