Nope, sorry to disappoint you there, but its not fixed at all. It did get better after you guys worked on it a bit (there was a time I actually had to retry up to 4-5 times a day to get DDO going after restarting, or not playing for several hours). But sadly I still have to do it at least 2 times each time I want to play. That is both for me on my own account and my son on his account (and on both his, mine and on my wife's PC).
I noticed it does help a tad when I keep trying to interact with the game (pressing I, C or whatever to open up UI things) and it seems to be affected a tad by putting up its priority in the WinTask manager, but that is only enough to keep it to 1x mostly never helps get the game to start right away.