Why the racism? There's no need for that these days
Any race will work, Human/Helf would work best due to healing amp.
Basic splits include:
18p/2m for most pally goodness and good saves
11p/9m for imp evasion etc - more for an easy pally life
etc
Lots of things have changed since 2010. Best to check out the wiki for updates.
For a proper solo build (given pally/monk requirements) I would go Bladeforged or Dragonmarked Halfling
8p/6m/6r - Staff specialisation, Zen archery, pew pew power
12m/6r/2m - Abundant step, imp evasion, monkcher pew pew
16a/2p/2m - Juggernaut (WF/BF if you want the best from this)
any battlemage combo (again WF are best)
I'ld look at taking arti levels personally due to trap skills and a summonable lever puller.
What are your goals looking at endgame? Survivability? DPS? Easy raid access?