I agreed to play with my husband and sons after months of them asking. They set me up with a warforged wizard, that I thought was pretty ugly and who couldn't fight her way out of a paper bag, even if I knew what I was supposed to be doing.
They all ran around, faster than I could figure out having never played a WASD game before. They gave me snarky advice like, "You have to be facing a monster to hit it" and "Equip your new gear" and "Why are you running against that wall" and they really ticked me off. I had no idea what they were talking about.
I thought this was the stupidest waste of time ever and regretted my deal to spend a weekend playing with them.
Three years later, they've moved on to other games, but I still play DDO.