(EDIT: Uhm, just noticed that this thread is a necro. Nevermind.)
I can give you the build for my main character who's a pure halfling enchanter wizard. I play halflings for flavour so feel free to replace the halfling enhancements with human ones and pick your bonus human feat.
My Enchantment DC isn't 100% maximised (race aside), my primary focus in the Archmage tree is actually Evocation for SLAs so that I can switch to DPS mode when CC is not needed that much - I run in Magister or Draconic when I want maximum Enchant DC and in Shiradi when DPS is more important. I don't like one-trick ponies and this versatility makes the character more fun to play for me. Even so, she usually does a pretty decent job at CCing up to EE Wheloon (I haven't played her in EE Stormhorns yet). When I see that mobs start saving a bit too much for comfort, I switch to vamp mode and pop an Int yugo pot for an extra +3 DC, that usually does the job.
For self-healing I twist Cocoon and use no-fail Heal scrolls - if you go this route, remember to pick up some Wand and Scroll Mastery and healing amplification (PDK gloves and Iron Mitts work well for me). Scrolls heal me for 345 hp.
The build below was "optimised" for running EE Underdark quests, for newer content the Epic Spell Penetration might not be needed and you could replace it with something else, eg. you could take Epic Enchant DC at 24 and Ruin at 27.
Abilities: Int and Con at 18, rest in Charisma for UMD. Dump everything else. (This is a 36pt build, drop a little Con if needed.)
Skills: Max UMD, Spellcraft, Heal, Concentration (for scrolls), rest in whatever you fancy, I like some Jump, Diplomacy, Tumble.
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Level 28 True Neutral Halfling Female
(20 Wizard \ 8 Epic)
Hit Points: 370
Spell Points: 1646
BAB: 10\10\15\20
Fortitude: 12
Reflex: 15
Will: 13
Level 1 (Wizard)
Feat: (Selected) Empower Spell
Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Wizard
Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Wizard
Feat: (Wizard Bonus) Quicken Spell
Level 2 (Wizard)
Level 3 (Wizard)
Feat: (Selected) Spell Penetration
Level 4 (Wizard)
Level 5 (Wizard)
Feat: (Wizard Bonus) Maximize Spell
Level 6 (Wizard)
Feat: (Selected) Greater Spell Penetration
Level 7 (Wizard)
Level 8 (Wizard)
Level 9 (Wizard)
Feat: (Selected) Insightful Reflexes
Level 10 (Wizard)
Feat: (Wizard Bonus) Heighten Spell
Level 11 (Wizard)
Level 12 (Wizard)
Feat: (Selected) Spell Focus: Evocation
Level 13 (Wizard)
Level 14 (Wizard)
Level 15 (Wizard)
Feat: (Selected) Greater Spell Focus: Evocation
Feat: (Wizard Bonus) Spell Focus: Enchantment
Level 16 (Wizard)
Level 17 (Wizard)
Level 18 (Wizard)
Feat: (Selected) Past Life: Arcane Initiate
Level 19 (Wizard)
Level 20 (Wizard)
Feat: (Wizard Bonus) Mental Toughness
Level 21 (Epic)
Feat: (Selected) Greater Spell Focus: Enchantment
Level 22 (Epic)
Level 23 (Epic)
Level 24 (Epic)
Feat: (Selected) Epic: Epic Spell Penetration
Level 25 (Epic)
Level 26 (Epic)
Feat: (Epic Destiny) Toughness
Level 27 (Epic)
Feat: (Selected) Epic: Epic Spell Focus: Enchantment
Level 28 (Epic)
Feat: (Epic Destiny) Epic Destiny: Hellball
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