LF: Sireth using rogue/monk/? Shadar-Kai build

[mikarddo]

Greetings,

I am considering TRing into a Shadar-Kai for a rogue past life as well as the +1% dodge from iconic PL and figured I might as well put the Sireth in my bank to some use in LD.
However, having never played a melee before I am somewhat at a loss and cannot seem to find a build that does not leave me unsure if it will fit.
I have 36 pts build, +5 to all Tomes but mostly caster PL except for a monk and a ranger PL (both done as monkcher with no melee).

I am either looking for a full time Sireth LD build or a build thats primarily Sireth but with Manyshot to complement (I have a Pinion for that).

I am thinking 13rog/6mnk/1dru - but if Shilelagh does not work with Sireth that might be less valuable - or - 12rog/6mnk/2pal for Divine Might and Divine Grace but then I need to work up a decent CHA and use a twist to get turns to fuel DM.

Finally, what are the advantages / disadvantages to Str or Dex for damage and to hit? I assume I will want OC so some Str will be needed but I simply dont know the pros and cons.

Any advice is very welcome preferably with as much detail as possible as I fear getting the feats and/or stat requirements all wrong otherwise. Links to already existing builds that fit the bill are most welcome. I tried to find some of those myself but didnt really succeed, unfortunately.