Okay, so i just reinstalled the game TWICE to be sure it wasn't that being the problem.

When i go to create a character ((and i tried on two servers to be sure it wasn't just one being buggy)) Everything is fine up until i hit the look tab, the game freezes for 2-3 minutes, and finally lets me put in ability scores/skills/feats, and when i click create after choosing my name/alignment, it starts loading, then i get "Connection to the server has been lost"