So, i had to wipe and reload my partners PC with a fresh copy of win 7 (64bit) i installed all the drivers and thats all working.
i then downloaded steam and then DDO, it all installed fine.
i went and direct launched DDO from the turbine launcher using admin mode, and it tells me that i am missing .net 1.1 so i downloaded and installed that and its hotfix.
i then went to load it again all goes well it installed all the pre req software and then tried to connect,
now this is where im stuck.
it just sits on connect with waiting, i cant seem to get anything to fix it.
it worked before i reinstalled windows.
i cant for the life of me work out how to fix it. i tried all the fix's in the forums and nothing.
please help.