40-48 is probably easy reflex target, 60 is possible.
05 Arty@16
03 Monk@2
00 Paladin@2
02 Epic Levels
09 DEX@29 (from video)
09 CHA@28 (from video)
=28
04 GH
01 Spider Mask
05 item (might be higher)
01 Aura of Good
01 Haste/Armor of Speed
02 Luck
=42
04 Sup. parrying (Not sure if this is slotted - sun soul?)
02 Brace for Impact
=48
06 Lithe (SD 2)
06 Unearthly reactions (Mag 1): +6 Ref, +3% Dodge
=60 (could be added)