Here's a stat and skill point distribution you can use to level up, for a melee druid:
Basically, at level one 2 skill points go into tumble and diplomacy and 4 skill points go into concentration, UMD, and balance. After that, 1 skill point goes into diplomacy, concentration, UMD, and balance with every level up until you're level 19, and then extra points go into wherever you'd like.
There are decent melee druid builds about, if you use the search function.
Hopefully success with your druid comes naturally. 
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Level 1 True Neutral Human Male
(1 Druid)
Hit Points: 30
Spell Points: 250
BAB: 0
Fortitude: 4
Reflex: 0
Will: 6
Starting Feat/Enhancement
Abilities Base Stats Modified Stats
(28 Point) (Level 1) (Level 1)
Strength 12 12
Dexterity 10 10
Constitution 14 14
Intelligence 8 8
Wisdom 18 18
Charisma 8 8
Starting Feat/Enhancement
Base Skills Modified Skills
Skills (Level 1) (Level 1)
Balance 2 2
Bluff -1 -1
Concentration 6 6
Diplomacy 1 1
Disable Device n/a n/a
Haggle -1 -1
Heal 4 4
Hide 0 0
Intimidate -1 -1
Jump 1 1
Listen 4 4
Move Silently 0 0
Open Lock n/a n/a
Perform n/a n/a
Repair -1 -1
Search -1 -1
Spot 4 4
Swim 1 1
Tumble 1 1
Use Magic Device 1 1
Level 1 (Druid)