Ungimp my Kensei fighter please :)

[Nitesco]

When gearing a melee, it all comes down to whether you have multiple tactics feats, one tactics feat or no tactics feats. Everything else is built up around the possiblities of slotting for those. Until we know that, we can't really offer you an optimal setup.

Having said that though, I will assume you have one tactical feat.

Head: Purple Dragon Helm
Eyes: Tharne's Goggles/Greensteel +45 HP Smoke
Neck: Finger Necklace/Silver Flame Talisman
Trinket: Planar Focus of Prowess (Str +3)/Epic Blasting Chime (Blindness Immunity/Wis +6) *
Back: Adamantine Cloak of the Wolf
Belt: Epic Spare Hand (Heavy Fortification/Exceptional Strength +1)
Wrists: Convalescent of Superior Parrying
Hands: Purple Dragon Gauntlets
Ring: Epic Ring of Master Artifice (Good Luck +2/Exceptional Constitution +1)
Ring: Epic Ring of the Stalker (Greater False Life/Dex +6)
Body: Stone Heart (Con +8)
Feet: Striding 30% of Balance +15/Kundarak Delving Boots/Epic Rock Boots (Fear Immunity/Cha +6) *

* - or use level 16 version and craft Mobility, Dodge or Melee Alacrity 10%

None of this stuff is hard to get, you will be able to grind most of it out in challenges, if you have a character capable of solo'ing them, so much the better.

Edit - forgot it was Warforged, made some adjustments