Originally Posted by
Clayness
I know this might get some of the "My loot is my loot" people out of the bushes. This whole sentiment with "My loot is my loot" is something I agree with, but only partially. I do think you are entitled to pull anything you get, even if you don't really need it right away. Passing something to a guildie might be understandable as well, I might not entirely condone it, but it would be their right.
My biggest issue is people who take this "My loot is my loot" sentiment to the extreme, and try to auction loot they get in a raid. It actually benefits me, I have been on the server for a long time and I have accumulated quite a bit of wealth and good items, so I would quite easily be able to bargain for an item if I needed it. But even though it benefits me more than most, I don't agree with the sentiment to auction items in a raid. It hurts new players more than anything, because these are the players that will typically not have anything worthwhile to bargain with, so if everyone stuck to this method of distributing loot, it will just widen the gap between new and old players and give new players less reason to join raids.
So, yes. Your loot IS your loot. But my raid is also MY raid, so I can decide to not invite you again, or join a raid in which you participate, that is my right if you take the technical approach.
Another issue I have noticed is that people judge other players by their performance, and this influences their generosity. Two healers join a shroud, one of them disconnects in part two and the other healer is stuck healing the remainder of the raid. The raid still goes smoothly and people pass things to the healer, primarily SP potions, but even shards are offered to the healer without rolls, since he expressed a need for shards when the raid started.
A monk joins an epic VON. And this is an actual example I have from an epic VON I did recently. Immediately upon joining the monk says that he needs a base SOS because he intends to TR. Unfortunately he performs extremely poorly, his character is poorly built and he appears to have no self-sufficiency at all, he manages to die three times in the pre-raid on epic normal, he constantly spams the party chat for heals, he spams for help, he spams for buffs. Then we get to the actual raid and he kills his djinn early two times despite people telling him to leave it alone, he dies on ice base, he then dies again when we fight Velah. At this point his already low hitpoints are reduced even further by his death penalties, so he decides to not even DPS Velah. Instead he hides behind a pillar and sticks to using his ranged abilities from the Grandmaster of Flowers destiny. People tell him to melee Velah but he ignores it. When the eggs spawn he continues to hide behind the pillar. The raid ends and indeed a Sword of Shadow drops, but not in his name. He immediately asks that the sword be passed to him since he asked for it. People naturally ignore him, and the person with the Sword of Shadow asks for people to roll. I notice that pretty much everyone rolls on the sword, and I admittedly roll on it as well, even though I have absolutely no intention of using it (I mainly rolled because the monk had the highest roll). I talk to other people after the raid, many of them even had a Sword of Shadow already but just didn't want the monk to get it.