As the title says, have faith in our Devs. They are here to make the game as good as they can. It will NEVER be perfect because they, like us are human. The devs are NOT trying to make you miserable, DDO is a business and that would be bad for business. If they do something you dont agree with that doesnt mean the majority of DDOers agree with you. Turbine is a business, they need to make money to keep this game going therefore they have to appease the majority before the minority. Most importantly remember there arent TONS of devs, im sure they work hard, and you CAN help apply for the mournlands and bug report on live and lammania it DOES have an effect. NOT bug reporting does more harm then good.
Overall have faith in the devs, they are NOT out to ruin the game (that would be stupid! Use common sense!). If bugs, well bug you that much do what you can to help the devs find them and fix them!