Alright, I have redone my build in the planner (and these at a decent time of day to improve my concentration 8-)). I am really bummed about have to lose +2 enchant dc by dropping past life arcane initiate and epic spell focus, but that is the only way I can figure to make room for the metas. At the very bottom I've also broken down my gear setup that I am shooting for so please feel free to add comments there as well.

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Rette  Spellsinger ENDBUILD
Level 20 Neutral Good Human Female
(20 Bard) 
Hit Points: 240
Spell Points: 1104 
BAB: 15\15\20\25\25
Fortitude: 11
Reflex: 12
Will: 12

                  Starting          Feat/Enhancement
Abilities        Base Stats          Modified Stats
(36 Point)       (Level 1)             (Level 20)
Strength              8                    10
Dexterity             8                    10
Constitution         18                    21
Intelligence         12                    14
Wisdom                8                    10
Charisma             18                    32

Tomes Used
+1 Tome of Strength used at level 3
+1 Tome of Dexterity used at level 3
+1 Tome of Constitution used at level 3
+1 Tome of Intelligence used at level 3
+1 Tome of Wisdom used at level 3
+1 Tome of Charisma used at level 3
+2 Tome of Strength used at level 7
+2 Tome of Dexterity used at level 7
+2 Tome of Constitution used at level 7
+2 Tome of Intelligence used at level 7
+2 Tome of Wisdom used at level 7
+2 Tome of Charisma used at level 7
+3 Tome of Constitution used at level 11
+3 Tome of Charisma used at level 11

                  Starting          Feat/Enhancement
                 Base Skills         Modified Skills
Skills           (Level 1)            (Level 20)
Balance               3                    23
Bluff                 4                    12
Concentration         8                    34
Diplomacy             8                    35
Disable Device        n/a                   n/a
Haggle                6                    35
Heal                 -1                     0
Hide                  3                    23
Intimidate            4                    12
Jump                  1                    13
Listen               -1                     0
Move Silently         3                    23
Open Lock            n/a                    n/a
Perform               8                    38
Repair                1                     2
Search                1                     2
Spot                 -1                     0
Swim                 -1                     0
Tumble               n/a                    n/a
Use Magic Device      8                    39

Level 1 (Bard)
Feat: (Human Bonus) Maximize Spell
Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Bard
Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Bard
Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Wizard
Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Wizard
Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Wizard
Feat: (Selected) Spell Focus: Enchantment
Enhancement: Bard Extra Song I
Enhancement: Bard Song Magic I
Enhancement: Bard Energy of the Music I


Level 2 (Bard)
Enhancement: Bard Inspired Damage I
Enhancement: Bard Lingering Song I
Enhancement: Bard Charisma I
Enhancement: Bard Wand and Scroll Mastery I


Level 3 (Bard)
Feat: (Selected) Past Life: Bardic Dilettante
Enhancement: Bard Inspired Attack I
Enhancement: Improved Concentration I
Enhancement: Bard Lyric of Song I


Level 4 (Bard)
Ability Raise: CHA
Enhancement: Improved Concentration II
Enhancement: Bard Song Magic II


Level 5 (Bard)
Enhancement: Bard Improved Spell Penetration I
Enhancement: Bard Energy of the Music II


Level 6 (Bard)
Feat: (Selected) Heighten Spell
Enhancement: Bard Spellsinger I


Level 7 (Bard)
Enhancement: Human Adaptability Charisma I
Enhancement: Bard Song Magic III


Level 8 (Bard)
Ability Raise: CHA
Enhancement: Bard Extra Song II
Enhancement: Bard Lyric of Song II


Level 9 (Bard)
Feat: (Selected) Greater Spell Focus: Enchantment
Enhancement: Bard Energy of the Music III


Level 10 (Bard)
Enhancement: Bard Extra Song III
Enhancement: Bard Inspired Damage II


Level 11 (Bard)
Enhancement: Bard Extra Song IV


Level 12 (Bard)
Ability Raise: CHA
Feat: (Selected) Quicken Spell
Enhancement: Bard Music of the Dead
Enhancement: Bard Spellsinger II


Level 13 (Bard)
Enhancement: Bard Music of Makers


Level 14 (Bard)
Enhancement: Bard Charisma II


Level 15 (Bard)
Feat: (Selected) Spell Penetration
Enhancement: Bard Charisma III


Level 16 (Bard)
Ability Raise: CHA
Enhancement: Bard Improved Spell Penetration II


Level 17 (Bard)


Level 18 (Bard)
Feat: (Selected) Greater Spell Penetration
Enhancement: Bard Improved Spell Penetration III
Enhancement: Bard Wand and Scroll Mastery II


Level 19 (Bard)
Enhancement: Bard Wand and Scroll Mastery III


Level 20 (Bard)
Ability Raise: CHA
Enhancement: Bard Musical Prodigy
Enhancement: Improved Perform I
Enhancement: Improved Perform II
Enhancement: Improved Perform III
Main Hand = Epic Elyd Edge slotted with +7 Enhancement
Off Hand = Alchemical Light Shield (flame touched, water, earth, fire) slotted with Good
Head = Epic Elders Cap for greater Enchantment Focus
Goggles = Greensteel Conc-Opp SP Item
Necklace = Epic Shimmering Pendant slotted with feather falling for +20 performance
Trinket = Planar Focus Erudition for +3 Ins. CHA
Cloak = Epic Envenomed Cloak slotted with heavy fortification
Armor = Spidersilk Robes for +8 CHA, +15 Concentration and Toughness
Wrists = Greensteel HP Item
Hands = Epic Charged Gauntlets slotted with greater false life
Belt = Greensteel Enervation Guard (really just because cant think of anything better)
Ring 1 = Cannith Crafted Ring Greater Spell Penetration VI Ring and Spell Resistance 20
Ring 2 = TOD +1 CHA Ring upgraded +2 CHA
Boots = Epic Boots of Corrosion slotted with -15% Arcane Spell Failure and Protection +4


As for destinies I will be primarily following the fatesinger tree but will twist into magister for Enchant DC increases.


I've been working towards this build for almost two years and would really like it shine. Any advice would be awesome.