I'm new to DDO, but not RPGs (I've done RPGs, CRPGs and LARP) or MMOs (AO, GW and Aion). However, I am trying to get my wife interested as well. Her only exposure to anything like this is Torchlight. I am trying to find an active Guild that will be supportive of an extreme newcomer (for when I cannot play with her). I found a Guild that sounds right up my alley, Friends of Nice and Slow, but they are not actively recruiting; I -might- be able to get in, but I'm not sure about my wife. I don't want her to create a character until I can find a Guild for her/us.
Any recommendations or recruitment offers would be welcome.