Most of the forumites that I've interacted with (including in this thread and in the similar shrplox thread) are some of the nicest, most helpful, most entertaining forumites that I've ever run into.
It's not at all hard to believe that they are the same great people that I encounter in game.
You simply have a severely skewed view of the DDO forums because of your aggressively antagonistic stances in so very many threads.