Been out of game for awhile. Pug scene, (just not as many as there used to be) has really changed it seems the only way to consistently get groups and run end game content is with a guild.
So I'm Looking for a laid back guild but with good players that has active groups and like to have fun as well, and I emphasize fun. Since returning I find everyone these days is a TR and wants to zerg everything on elite... I often hear lots of drama if things don't go according to plan during a run and tempers flair.
I know it's about the xp, but it's also imo supposed to be fun to play, fun is high on my list of why I play for as well as how satisfying it is playing with good players. Doing quests over and over and over it's easy to lose track of the fun factor but I try and remember it's why I log in. Hey the real world, I have that... DDO is my escape.
I have 4 toons that I play, even though they are all tr's I consider myself casual. I don't know every quest. Far from it. And some I have never done. I admit I have a lot to learn and there is a lot's of new content I haven't done. I'm a VIP. Often solo up to level 12 or so before I begin to group but love grouping aspect of this game which is the best part of it and distinguishes it from all the other MMO's out there I think especially when when you are with good people.
I am not filling out any idiotic applications for people's amusement. I'd rather just hook, (think of it as a handshake kinda thing), up with the ideal that it's a trial period for both of us and if it doesn't work out we move on.