/rant on
Me, a lvl 8, 32-build, Divine Avenger Favored Soul, with a stack of cure critical scrolls , handful of cure serious wands and a crappy cure moderate spell, ventured into VON1 on elite - and because we did so well, then ventured into VON2 , also on elite (me for both being the healer).
Our Zerger of course could not wait for a full party (we had one or two drop off between VON1 and VON2 and even so, not all of us remaining were yet inside) and instead, plowed into Beholder #1 - just after the air bridge and close to the shrine - and of course died. I rushed over to help but our Beholder friend decided to cross the bridge, and promptly quelled my attempt to help.
At this point and still not a full party, already at least 2 of us are now without ship buffs and for me (imho), even lighter on healing than before.
The four or five of us finally group up and hit the ladder to take on the dogs.
Our Zerger buddy goes down 1st as does one other, and Zerger friend has the nerve to ask about my healing. Heck, by the time I got there the battle was already in full swing! While we're discussing the situation, another player joins the party and hearing our dialog, drops group - no sweat I guess.
However, said dropper engages me through IM and has no end of criticism regards the situation – I finally felt it necessary to squelch him (godz I haven’t done that in years - literally). Pointedly, and according to him, my mana bar wasn't low enough, insinuating that I was doing no healing when really, my primary healing mechanism was wands and scrolls that I was using to target multiple players with (don’t even get me started on our arcane party leader , later on, attempting to take out the Arcane Oozes with mana!).
Anyway, not really sure where I'm going here but we did eventually finish… and of course on the last fight, more players go down trying to avoid damage by running around the fountain – and of course out of my “healing” sight.
/rant off