Completionist Ego

[Aarbron]

(Party): You have joined ***********'s party.

(Party): *********** dismissed you from the party.

(Tell): *********** tells you, 'just occurred to me i dont know you.'

Really? why bother lfm then?
Next time you want to run coalescence chamber on elite just invite your friends or lfm that its private.

[Lavek]

why would you wanna group with him anyway?

[grgurius]

My reply would be: "Didn't your mother told you not to speak to strangers?"

[Kmnh]

What's wrong with wanting to play with the people he knows?

[Sithias]

why would you wanna group with him anyway?

QFT.....Goony Goo Goo anyone?

[Terebinthia]

What's wrong with wanting to play with the people he knows?

In fairness, if using the LFM panel to corral your friends in game, it's usually a good idea to make it clear on the LFM, so hapless PUGs don't try to join.

[Bacab]

(Party): You have joined ***********'s party.

(Party): *********** dismissed you from the party.

(Tell): *********** tells you, 'just occurred to me i dont know you.'

Really? why bother lfm then?
Next time you want to run coalescence chamber on elite just invite your friends or lfm that its private.

His LFM..his rules...

But I agree, that does reek with elitism.

Though in fairness, I will post a LFM that says "In progress, know the way to the quest...not stopping... talk to Zawabi 13 times". I would always get someone to join who would say "shr plz" or "where is this" or I am at the end (second fight) and they would get to the quest and say "it is saying I am on the wrong chapter...what does that mean?" Then they would get angry when I would finish then recall out and drop party. Who is wrong in that situation? Me for being impatient? Or them for failing at reading comprehension?

I have to admit, I also get tired of people 10 minutes getting ship buffs for a 10 minute quest (OOB for example). It really slows the XPing process down.

So we are once again brought back to the issue...His LFM...His Rules. And that can be annoying.

[nivarch]

In before the moderators!

Oh wait no name has been given yet it may survive

[darkniteyogi]

its perfectly ok to put an LFM with Friends only / friends first / private

But totally rude to not put it, and then Kick someone and say 'it just occured to me that i dont know you'.

To decline a request is rude enough, but to accept and kick someone is worse.

If the poster didn't put any label in the LFM that its private then I can think of no reason why than himself feeding his ego and making fun of people by declining joiners and kicking the ones who he forgets he doesnt know.

[redmexz]

sooooooooo over rated

[Chai]

What's wrong with wanting to play with the people he knows?

Should be put in the LFM. I see em all the time with:

Private.

People I know first.

Guild run.

Most of the time I see that stuff, I end up putting my own LFM up if I really wanted to run that quest anyhow. Sometimes I even get sarcastic and put "Noobs and people I never met only" in it.

[Impaqt]

What's wrong with wanting to play with the people he knows?

nothing at all....

but accepting someone then booting them is a DB move.....

[somenewnoob]

why would you wanna group with him anyway? :d

this.

[cdr]

That particular person has been very angry lately and acting like a giant d*ck in PUGs. Just avoid.

[Ilindith]

That particular person has ALWAYS been very angry and acts like a giant d*ck in PUGs. Just avoid.

Fixed it for you.

To the OP:
Like I said in the first thread that, for mysterious reasons, got deleted. You don't want to group with him anyway. But if you really want to get yourself banned, keep going.

[Aarbron]

My first thread was deleted because i was so angry with that guys behaviour that i forgot to delete his name when copy - pasting from the party chat. The dm did his job, for this i have no issues.

On the other hand i refuse to accept omerta in this forum Ilindith.
No one is getting banned for posting behaviours like this on the forum.

Fortunately, i had never run in one of his lfms before, now i know why ppl talk about him like that.

[Thrudh]

(Tell): *********** tells you, 'just occurred to me i dont know you.'

I feel bad for the people who do know him...

"If a man is good to his friends, but rude to a stranger, he's not a good man"

[totabc]

QFT.....Goony Goo Goo anyone?

Thats not your wife Bob you just shaved a bigfoot.

Aside form that TRs = skill we all know this, so because hes a completionist now it gives him the right to be elitest.
tbh idk why you'd want to join someones group that says they have to know you for a lvl 16 quest, that has been out for over a couple years, that old content sure is hard.

[cdr]

Fixed it for you.

Granted it's been months since I encountered him last, but before to me he seemed like a minor jerk and a little odd, which is like 50% of DDO. Maybe I just didn't encounter the bad side, but it seems like something recently made the d*ckishness go nuclear.

[AMDarkwolf]

if its who i think it is, yes, hes always been like that, slightly toned down when ... someone else.. is part of the group, but for the most part, that person is just very angry at everything, and has an ego the size of the sun(Yet little if nothing, to support it :P)

Don't let it worry you, squelch him and move on. The 'other' person is a great human being, and defiantly worth your time to befriend, and I just can't fathom why she would want to associate with that other, but meh, everyone has flaws