You are going to be waiting longer then you think.
"Experts" and gamers alike have written off DDO time and time again, each major release supposedly digging DDO deeper into the grave.
However during these times, Turbine was ADDING subs.
The F2P model was Turbines lifeline for many years to come, as was the Warner Bros purchase. Turbines got big cash.
I dont see either swtor or skyrim adding up to much more then a vacation. Neverwinter is vaporware. We'll talk when it SHIPS, and not a day before.