Yeah. And they can either speak up about it, or fail. He didn't speak up. Fail.
I didn't say "Hey bro, you're fail, die in a fire LOL!" I said to another player that I needed their help, and why. Because the Sorcerer I had expected to be capable of doing a job assigned to them in a satisfactory fashion had invalidated themselves upon the basis of obtaining too much aggro. But "Sorc is fail" is a lot easier to fit into a tell, k?
And I somehow highly doubt that you remember in each and every raid you run that you ask "hey, hey guys. Guys? Guys, is it anyone's first time?" - really.
My responsibility is to hit accept to the first 11 people that hit my LFM. Their responsibility is to ensure they are flagged, and to tell someone if it's their first time.
Their responsibility. Not mine. I'ma say that again. Theirs. New player? Your responsibility. Especially when you're second to join, and we're sitting around 20 mins waiting to fill.
And again - I didn't pull jack to the middle. I was on my Spellsinger - I was singing songs, then suddenly we had bosses. I wouldn't be surprised if it was aggro magnet #1 that brought them.
I have considered that. And to be brutally honest, that makes him a 5-10 times greater failure. Because being in the raid, and knowing that a caster has a job, my first instinct would be to say "well dang, I'm a caster. That might be my job next time. I better ask guy who is doing it this time what that job entails."It's also possible he's done the raid 5-10 times already, but never had to do the crystal, so he didn't realize he needed to ask for special instructions.
All I can tell you is if I had been leading that raid, there would have been no issues and no forum thread.
Therefore, it's partly your fault as leader. Because a different leader would have had a different outcome.
I can confirm from this that you, indeed, are not a Sarlona native.
That said - the outcome was that two Bards Greater Shouted a Crystal, and everyone moved on, and we all completed and got Larges.
My Raid still completed - but if a single new player comes here and learns that they have a job in Part 2 aside from feeding their epeen for spell damage numbers, mission accomplished.
Yes, I am sure that your parties never fail and that everyone always listens to your instructions.
I would be eager to see these impressive leadership skills in action. In particular I would love to see how you handle the puggers who don't speak english or the ones who pretend that they don't.
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so to sum this up:
the sorc was fail because : "invalidated themselves upon the basis of obtaining too much aggro". which it appears was obtained prior to being asked to do crystal.
just a ? - why not ask him to do crystal before bosses pulled and aggro obtained?
I gotta say that I went on my first LoB raid with McPhail and the EW crew (after having made it clear I hadn't done it before...) and they were great at trying to make sure I knew what I was doing. The again, when they asked me to do something, I stopped and listened.
For those unclear on the concept, that is a lesson usually learned in kindergarden... when someone is giving instructions, stop and listen to the instructions.
I would also like to add that the EW folk were very understanding about my total noobage in the raid. I died so many times I was running around naked at the end of it. And outside of some good natured joking, not a single negative comment was made to me.
As long as the instructions happen BEFORE you do the task, that works very well...
Look, I'm sure theDearLeader is a good player, and helpful to players who ask questions...
I also agree 100% that new players need to speak up when entering a quest or a raid (especially a raid) for the first time. The sorc was definitely at fault.
But the leader screwed up too.... Telling someone not to get aggro AFTER they got aggro isn't very good leading. Telling someone to go to the crystal when they have no idea where the crystal is isn't very good leading.
Saying "Oh, it's a 3-year old raid. Everyone should auto-magically know what to do" isn't very good leading.
But again, the sorc should have spoken up... I say it's 80/20 or even 90/10 the sorc/leader's fault... But it ain't 100% the sorc.
Maybe to you--in nearly every situation I can think of, beating down mobs while waiting for or listening to instructions is fine.
Or by you asking. Everyone has their own expectations on who has responsibility to make sure a new person is identified. I just find you end up with less disappointment and less "HOSHI-" raid moments if you take up the responsibility yourself and don't rely on the other to just know what their responsibility will be.
You woulda hated me. On my air savant, never carried disintegrate, had better (to me, anyway) things to spend limited spell slots on. 1 lightning bolt, level 3 spell, never took any more than that. LOL at him getting agro though, how hard is it to go into sneak mode and just sit off in a corner while melees drag them off? Can't wait to get back to Shroud level on my main again... great times...
Also I can't believe someone found a good use for greater shout! Levelling up a bard now, shout is complete, utter uselessnesses. I usually use shout just to let baddies know I'm there - never seems even good enough to pull agro
There are actually a remarkable number of things you need to do if you really want to put the blame on the party leader.
They include a voice check (which people apparently can get mad about), a check that everyone can understand you (yup that kills lots of pugs on Sarlona as many do not speak english), a check that everyone will listen to instructions (lol, you will get lots of nopes from people on Sarlona for this one but never from the one guy who really will just ignore you), a is anyone new check (again assumes that the person will actually tell you which they will not always), a is anyone going to just sit at the beginning and pike check (again disqualifies some on Sarlona right away), and finally a are you going to be griefing the party check by randomly charging the dragon or doing something else that everyone knows you shouldn't do (again asking is pointless as no one will admit it, but it happens).
At some point you just have to trust pugs that they are smart enough to listen to the party leader and if they are new to ask what they need to do.
Last edited by Cyr; 09-28-2011 at 03:48 PM.
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Sadly, I've seen all of this in epic raids.
Even giving the spiel every time, in voice and party chat, and you will get people who either can't understand, don't care, don't look, don't listen, and go and do stupid things like:
Improved Precise Shot the Djinn and every fascinated mephit past it
"Leroy" Velah and lock everyone out
Don't listen the first 10 times I ask "Anyone else need TS", and wait until I'm busy healing a group with Lailat swinging away to yell out "GIVE ME TS!"