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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDearLeader View Post
    Should be in your mail on DDoS.
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    how does a server bear responsibilty for a individuals choice in gearing? ive myddoed people on every server and there are lots of people undergeared and with a low to moderate understanding of builds.the games about fun not score cards or uber gear or the bestamest build ever, everyone has thier own defination of ddo fun

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    Quote Originally Posted by 9Crows View Post
    how does a server bear responsibilty for a individuals choice in gearing? ive myddoed people on every server and there are lots of people undergeared and with a low to moderate understanding of builds.the games about fun not score cards or uber gear or the bestamest build ever, everyone has thier own defination of ddo fun
    Each server has their own identity, mentality. And frankly? Because this instance happened on Sarlona, so I'm talking with the people I game with day in and day out. Sorry this concept has bothered you so.

    And who said he needed to have the "Max Open Lock humanly possible ZOMG!?!" - I never said anything of the kind.

    I noticed it was a gear issue, and I gave what I did not need to he who did. Weird notion?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebastianosmith View Post
    Some folks never realize what the "unconfirmed" tab means or even that it exists. You just never know...
    This...I realized it after 1.5 years of playing.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ilindith View Post
    Only character I have left :P And thanks, will send them back when I'm done with this life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDearLeader View Post
    Each server has their own identity, mentality. And frankly? Because this instance happened on Sarlona, so I'm talking with the people I game with day in and day out. Sorry this concept has bothered you so.

    And who said he needed to have the "Max Open Lock humanly possible ZOMG!?!" - I never said anything of the kind.

    I noticed it was a gear issue, and I gave what I did not need to he who did. Weird notion?
    thread is called "annoyed sarlona" and yet this happens on every server singling out a specific server as you did implies it happens mopre there than anywhere else which is incorrect.the toon in question did not ask for assistance. you presumed he needed it based on critique of his preformance,then started a thread complaining he didnt take everything you thought he needed. u then use sarcasm and overstatement to disvalidate a responce.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 9Crows View Post
    thread is called "annoyed sarlona" and yet this happens on every server singling out a specific server as you did implies it happens mopre there than anywhere else which is incorrect.the toon in question did not ask for assistance. you presumed he needed it based on critique of his preformance,then started a thread complaining he didnt take everything you thought he needed. u then use sarcasm and overstatement to disvalidate a responce.
    I'm sorry I posted wrong. Perhaps you can offer a course on it for me, on how to be judgmental of someone being judgmental?

    Thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDearLeader View Post
    I'm sorry I posted wrong. Perhaps you can offer a course on it for me, on how to be judgmental of someone being judgmental?

    Thanks.
    more sarcasm and deliberated misunderstanding my previous post was an observation based on what you the op stated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 9Crows View Post
    more sarcasm and deliberated misunderstanding my previous post was an observation based on what you the op stated.
    My post was an observation on you, the kettle, calling me, the pot, black.

    But I thought you'd get that the first time. We done here? I hope so, because I'm going to bed nao.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDearLeader View Post
    I'm sorry I posted wrong. Perhaps you can offer a course on it for me, on how to be judgmental of someone being judgmental?

    Thanks.
    ooh pick me pick me.

    Infact even if you don't I'm totally going to become an author and I just want to thank you for giving me the inspiration for my title

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    Quote Originally Posted by fTdOmen View Post
    ooh pick me pick me.

    Infact even if you don't I'm totally going to become an author and I just want to thank you for giving me the inspiration for my title

    How to be Judgemental of someone being judgemental for someone judgemental.


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    I like it.

    And to be entirely judgmental of the tittle, judgmental doesn't have an "e" between the g and m. I actually used to make the same typo constantly until I did a stint as a junior paralegal, and typing it a bajillion times a day beat it out of me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDearLeader View Post
    Actually, the OL +13s may have been sent from another toon. I haven't checked my other toons yet.

    I suppose that the person could have just not logged on in.. weeks. I've just seen plenty of instances where I try to assist someone and... nothing.

    Ya, all of the mail returned suggestions could be quite possible, but I think everyone is missing the big picture here. This is a recurring event, it happens to me too.

    It probably happens to most of us, you go out of your way to actually help someone instead of just watching them fail miseribly and you almost get shunned for it....
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    Well, I will say this, last time I checked myddo, it said my main, rasmus is a halfing, he hasn't been a halfing for well over a year, so you might just not be able to trust what you read on Myddo.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rasmus View Post
    Well, I will say this, last time I checked myddo, it said my main, rasmus is a halfing, he hasn't been a halfing for well over a year, so you might just not be able to trust what you read on Myddo.
    The race/level/point build were all correct. There are more ways to check the accuracy of MyDDO than even the "Last Updated" column.

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    It's up to you how to interpret your world.
    You can think he's ungrateful and ignorant in returning the gear. Or, you can think that he hasn't played in awhile.
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    I think the problem may be that many people view unsolicited advice as demeaning, couple that with the right guild tag and it may come off as "elitism." Those that know you know that you're no elitist but random pugs could misinterpret your attempt at mentoring as an insult...
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