So, I've come across a decent number of Paladin guides, (ex: The Epic Knight) but they focus on being level 20 and having epic gear, and 32-34 points, etc.
I've also read a lot of the newbie guides on ddowiki, as well as relevant information pertaining to Paladins, enhancements, etc.
But in all that, it's hard to discern what would be beneficial to me as a generally solo focused player who logged in to his level 4 Paladin, and level 0 guild (now level 1!).
I've started towards Knight of the Chalice, but unsurprisingly my stats are not super high, and my primary weapon is a +1 Greatsword.
I also seem to see builds omit the miscellaneous low talents from their lists, which doesn't really help me, since most of the builds core Enhancements seem to unlock at around Rank 20 (16 Enhancement points spent?)
So, currently:
Str - 16 (+1 Inherent from cake, +1 neck from Korthos)
Dex - 10
Con - 14
Wis - 14
Int - 10
Cha - 18 (+1 Paladin, +2 Cloak from The Lost Seekers)
Assuming this works: http://my.ddo.com/character/khyber/jaren/
I'd list enhancements but I don't have the game available to me at the moment