Nice selective editing there. IRC that post was mostly about me explaining that DDO is both competitive and cooperative. They are not mutually exclusive.
I do not play to beat other players in the kill counts. I play to beat the quest in kill counts. I always play to avoid a wipe, regardless. Yes, I still gauge my performance against other players in the group who are doing well. That makes it both competitive and cooperative.
I never said any such thing. I believe you are referring to a post where I claim that AA's have a chance of holding their own against casters in some quests. It's interesting that you are now ready to admit that casters are "OP."
No, this is completely wrong. You design for the NEW character (not the average) who has excellent, top notch gaming skills. The whole point of a game revolves around the player, not the character. This allows new players to get better at the game and succeed without endless grinding, and allows longterm players to still experience a challenge if they seek it (by running the highest level content their character can open).