Because dramas always create interesting threads
Well i'm more after a general opinion here, just to know if i was right or wrong.
Here are the facts :
Few days ago, i pugged a von5 for xp (+25% bonus ftw !!!), was only for xp NO ONE was doing von6.
Everything is going quite "normal" (half of the party was for the first time moving elsewhere of the very first room, discovering OOOOH the quest isnt doing it by itself we need to do stuff... well we all know it, and TRs even more.).
So after like... 45 minutes we get at boss, open the door, traps disarmed, we get in, kinda happy to finally call it a end, enjoying in advance the incoming 30k xp... then the leader realized that someone was still behind a door at the bottom, certainly trapped.
He decided to go get back him, implying to open the double doors with str/wis/target, everyone coming back and making, for some of us, more ticking on this 25% bonus + xp pot (i try to sound greedy for more objectivity).
After a few tells with friends in the party, we decided to ask, why not just finishing now, everyone in the quest will get the experience, boss or not, and since we're not doing v6 and there is absolutely no loot, having the 12 people on the last room is not a MUST. The leader decided otherwise, and i finally came down, a bit reticent i admit it, trying still to ask why not finishing now since some of us may be in a hurry, or maybe just upset of spending so much time on a quest.
After an enjoyable arguement on voice chat, that is not useful to describe here, we finally got the left behind guy back. Lucky me, my watch told me we wasted exactly 34 minutes to get the guy back (would have been around 30 if i had immediatly got down to use the str lever...).
All i mean is, was i wrong to try to balance the respect between left behind people and the 8 others or more wasting these 30 minutes on a time that would have been enough to do the quest a second time ?
When i tried to explain that (very nicely imo) to the leader in tells once the quest was done, i got squelched. Just meant to help him in future pugs with less understandable people.
Maybe i was wrong, maybe the star in a party MUST be obeyed wherever, whenever, whatever is asked. Though i keep thinking that a leader's job is to balance his attention over all the members of a party, carewise, timewise, and respectwise.
To put it in a nutshell, my final question is : what is, in your opinion, the job of a leader, and how should we listen to him ? I mean totally pugwise of course.
RAWR IBTD <3