Just have something to say that I've been holding back for awhile.
So-called Easy Buttons, do not exist.
the fact of the matter is, the majority (read: all) of players/posters i see complaining about easy buttons are Vets of the game.
Here's the thing guys, the simple fact is, the game hasn't gotten any easier, you've just gotten better at it.
I gaurantee that when you first started you didn't think that DDO was half as easy as you do now.
The major problem here is that Turbine has to balance the game between being hard enough to keep veteran/hardcore players happy and easy enough not to send new players running for the hills.
Unfortunately, the balance will ALWAYS be tilted towards attracting new players, as more players = more revenue.
Also would like to point out that alot of the so-called Easy buttons used by players are in fact Exploits, or are not currently WAI, and are thus exploits as well.
Other things are simply the way D&D works. Back in my PNP days, the job of every melee in the party was keeping the monsters away from the Casters and Healers. Whether or not we killed any monsters in the process was incidental. Party Dynamics are a part of D&D. But thats a dicussion for another thread.
Final Point: Its not that the game is getting easier, its that you're gettin better at it.
[edit: i fully expect to get neg rep for this post, undeserved as it will be]