Was it a naughty mistell? If not, I'm not really interested.
Long time ago, girlfriend I had at the time, we played EQ together. She got frisky, and back to back we both 'channel mastered' some rather raunchy, graphic tells into guild chat.
Had to put up with the jokes and puns for literally MONTHS. Luckily, the guild we were in was full of equally lewd and crude individuals.
Aeolwind (5/12) - 18 Sorc/1 Art | Melisandria - 20 Fighter SD | Anlona - 20 cleric RS
Well, I am also pretty sure I killed the base 2 djinn and did admit it to the group. I got blinded(disoriented by the mephit) and hit it while clicking on my remove blindness pots.
This was abnormal play on my part, I think in part due to running with a different group of people who while I mighthave run with them before still need to feel out.
Eternal Wrath - Kages - Prototypes - Rest ful - Musei - Dizafrabdont - Enkou - Kagehissori - many more"To be human is to have the freedom to control one's own fate." ~Karl Marx~
Ok, I got one.
This is me being dense. We failed a ToD back when it was fairly new. It was back in part 3. Some tank messed up and kept dying and regenerating Horoth. We were getting ready to do another run. I thought he had dropped group (someone else did without saying anything), as I wanted to get a guildie into the next run. So I was talking about how he messed up in the party. Not overly critical, but you know how even when its their fault they don't like to admit it right then and there. Anyways, someone says, "Sam, you know that guy is still in the group right?". I say, "Umm, Ummm."
Anyways, I explain that I want his spot and apologize, but then kick him anyways. After all, my guildie still wanted in. He of course, sends me messages saying how there is a special place for me in the hot spot. I of course understand and apologize again, but am still not going to let him back in. Of course, given the number of raids/epics I run we eventually cross paths again. He apologizes, but I'm still not going to let him go on stuff he's not ready for. Eventually, I take him off "the list", but it took awhile.
It worked out, but I still think that was a "really, Sam" moment. Not that anything would have changed in the end, but I think tact was totally out the window there.
Doing a good job here is like peeing in a dark suit.
You get a warm feeling, but nobody really notices.
Some people just need to be told though. I try gently, and try to help those willing, but some aren't willing.
We had a 230 hp sorc on Epic Dq the other day. Thankfully the divines stopped raising him. He did admit his hp total after I looked at my ddo, and was accepting of suggestions.
Eternal Wrath - Kages - Prototypes - Rest ful - Musei - Dizafrabdont - Enkou - Kagehissori - many more"To be human is to have the freedom to control one's own fate." ~Karl Marx~