My monk final gear is planned as follows
Note: I don't have a lot of this gear finished, but it is pretty optimal for my playstyle.
Head - Epic Helm of Frost (slot GFL)
(+7 change, 30 cold resist, 1/3 abashai)
Goggles - Epic Raven' Sight
(True seeing, Wis +2, Set bonus w/ Many Facets of +4 to-hit)
Necklace - Shintao cord/Oremis necklace/Veriks necklace
(Swap as needed for Dps, Ki regen, or extra to-hit)
Cloak - Epic Envenomed (slot toughness)
(+7 con, greater poison guard, 2/3 abashai)
Bracer - Epic Claw Bracers
(+2 con, heavy fort)
Gloves - Epic Charged Gauntlets
(Shocking Blow, 3/3 abashai)
Ring - (match necklace and shocking burst)
Ring - (match belt and holy burst)
Belt - Knost/Morganas belt
(Swap as needed for dps/to-hit)
Boots - Greensteel radiance guard with 45 hp/kundy boots/madstone/anchoring
(Swap as needed. I use madstone, then get the proc, then swap back to greensteel)
Robe: Equilibrium (Swap to Red Scale Robe)
(Dt could work too, but I prefer equilibrium to free up Bracers and stay in fire 4)
Trinket: Epic Gem of Many Facets/Litany/Bloodstone
(Gem for epics, litany/bloodstone for all else)
I play a HOrc dark monk. He hits hard as heck and I've stolen sullo aggro once or twice off of geared dps in Vod/ToD....
Enjoy