If you're not going to accept

[Daggertooth]

1) I can highlight your name and hit 'invite'. If the game was not meant to be designed this way, I would not have an 'invite' command until you responded to my 'tell' command.
I fully understand that in your parent's basement, this is not considered 'proper'. However, for surface dwellers, this is a game that is meant to be played with others. I can go a bit further and tell you 'why' you feel the need to demand that someone expend the effort type out a 'tell' message before they have the nerve to simply 'invite', but is that really necessary?

[Falco_Easts]

it's not the party leader's fault that myddo takes so long to load. It takes a good 40 seconds to look up a character and ask your other party members if it's ok.

If that is what you are doing please let me know so i can withdraw my request to join. I would rather not join a group that sits around screening instead of playing.

[furbyoats]

screening people becomes necessary after you've taken 6 con 0% fort rogues into raids when just looking at the outstanding request list and assuming people know how to build half decent toons.

i do not want dead weight in my raid party when that slot can be filled by someone who will suit the task at hand in a far better manner.

also /meh

[Rameses]

it's not the party leader's fault that myddo takes so long to load. It takes a good 40 seconds to look up a character and ask your other party members if it's ok.

-1 Rep. First because you are not from Argonnessen. Second because you are potentially trolling and that is unexceptable. Thirdly who cares about using myddo to build a party?!?


I am, Rameses!

[Shadow7375]

I think it's ruder to go AFK when you've put up an LFM and have others making plans around your group. Unless it's an emergency... but, there's no way there are THAT many emergencies.

If you've put up an LFM, you should be ready to group within a reasonable time frame. Same if you click on an LFM.

I seriously cannot fathom what is going through some party leader's mind when they're forming a group...

"Hmmm.... I really need a VoD, and I'm off timer... Yeah, a VoD sounds good. Let's see, we definitely need a tank and a Cleric or two... I can handle the traps, so don't need a Rogue..."

*clicks on Create Party button*

"Alrighty, LFM is up! Now, I really should mow the lawn, Mary's asked me twice and you know what they say about if the wife's not happy... OH! Almost forgot that we're almost out of milk, so I'll run up to the corner after I get done mowing.....Gosh, isn't it nice to get so many things done?"

Lol, this made me laugh ... Thanks

[Kmnh]

-1 Rep. First because you are not from Argonnessen. Second because you are potentially trolling and that is unexceptable. Thirdly who cares about using myddo to build a party?!?


I am, Rameses!

+1 for actually calling out your neg rep.


I'm not trolling. I accept people that I know, or that someone else in the party knows. If no one knows you, I use myddo to see if there is anything horribly wrong with your build. Most of the time I don't need to check.

When myddo wasn't working, the endgame guilds closed up into a clique. Unknown people would cook in the queue until the leader gave up on finding his friends/guildies. Or just be straight up declined. Myddo helps the new players.