I don't mind you in my parties. You can zerg to your little hears content! Makes no nevermind to me.
HOWEVER,
Have the ability to back up your playstyle. And when you have left the party, and gotten in trouble, ordering me to come save you while I'm taking care of them is just going to **** me off. Doing it in all caps with rudeness and swearing interspersed will make me pretty much ignore you the rest of the quest/chain. You are one of six (or 12 in the case of a raid) people under my care. You are actually NOT any more important to me than the other five people, myself included in that five. You are, in fact, less important to me because you stated by your choice to run off and leave us that you do not in fact wish to be in my care as a healer.
Understand that, and behave with a modicum of civility and responsibility for your own choices, and we'll be happy playing together. I look forward to partying with the civil zergers in the future, and blacklisting the ones like my wizard today.
Signed,
all my cleric and fs toons.
Yes, I know this topic pops up alot, but I hope in posting this that yet on more will begin to make people realize that many clerics share this mindset. I'm sure there are some that enjoy running like headless chickens, but many of us do not, and will not.