I didnt miss the point at all, In fact, once again, I specifically said that myself.
However the other point *I* am making is that this is a common occurance with melees, and it is by and large acceptable on a melee, but apparently not for mages. They think it is okay to demand rage/haste/whatever buff they can provide themselves, and its just the mage's job to run around keepiung them rage/hasted and THEY get to compete for kills while the mage should just shut up and tag along like a good little boy, but by GOD they better throw a firewall when the melees want one. Oh and BTW, learn to not be a one-trick-pony-firewall-kthnkxby. Anyone who has played lvl 8+ content for more than a few days KNOWS this to be true.
And again, there were 5 other ppl in that party. The mage wasnt the sole cause of their troubles; he merely contributed to it with his nub-tard attitude (the same attitude shared by a great many non-mage kill count hounds). The mage's attitude, however, wasnt any more or less wrong than the rest of the group. his RESULTS were what really show his stupidity. If you cant actually back up your boast, you should not make it in the first place. Declaring you are going to rock the kill count, then failing miserably is one of the premier examples of stupidity possible in an MMO. That even assuming the killcount actually were the single defining measure of a player's worth in a party -- which it is not.
Now, to be absolutely clear, since so many people dont seem to get this: I AGREE that mages SHOULD buff the party, including rage/haste etc for the melees in order to keep the pace rockin (assuming the party WANTS to do it quickly of course), charm/hold the mobs, drop nukes strategically to best benefit the party as a whole. Individual killcount should take a backseat to having a fun, smooth run, no deaths, getting all reasonable bonuses/optionals, and completing in a reasonable amount of time. The ONLY killcount that REALLY matters is the total, and that only because it counts toward Conquest
That doesnt mean the mage doesnt have the right to compete for top dog, if he wants to, just like any other toon. But *EVERYONE* should shift their priorities to what best benefits the group (not just the mage) or go solo the quest.