Well, after thinking about it for most of the day this is the only melee build I can think of where you wouldn't be inferior to another race -
HElf Ftr20 or Ftr12/Barb6/Rog2 maybe Ftr12/Pally6/Rog2
Monk dilly
36(!) point build
Str 18, Dex 14+3 tome, Con 15, Int 8, Wis 14, Cha 8
2 x U9 Vampiric Khops, eventually replaced by 2 x eChaosblades
Enhancements - as much Healing Amp as you can afford without compromising FHB, Ftr Str, HV, Kensai etc. (and it'll be very tight)
Basically a higher DPS version of the 'Solar Pheonix', although if you're using FB I you're frustrating your own attempts at self healing.
Can anyone else do better?