Can you call your ranger any better in all honesty? Maybe it was the raid that I was in, but I healed an epic chrono of yours not too long ago. You seem like a nice person, but overall the entire group was lacking a huge oomph of DPS and experience, but you seemed to be under a different impression. When the melee favored soul has to turn off power attack because he's afraid of stealing aggro from the silly Arcane Archer tank, you know something is up. I wasn't going to say anything and call you out because you seem nice, but I have very much the same impression of your build as you do of his.
I don't see the huge difference between your AA build and his. You have about 60 more HP, but are in similar gear to him. Event epics != real epics, and while they are nice stepping stone for better epics, they are really just a stepping stone. Your DPS is probably similar just because you never put down the pew pew as far as I saw.
Obviously this player is new to epics yes, but his build isn't so bad, just a bit undergeared and probably this guy's first character. Sure, he may say he's done tons and tons of epics, but who cares really? I personally think it's slightly hypocritical to turn down builds that are very similar in power and gear to yours for raids.